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WHY IT WAS THE RIGHT DECISION TO LEAVE HOME AND TRAVEL THE WORLD

Why it was the right decision to leave home and travel the world

Why it was the right decision to leave home and travel the world

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Belief me, earlier than we left Germany we had doubts; doubts if it’s the suitable determination to give up our jobs and to take all our financial savings to journey the world. We have been each 29 and once we have been youthful individuals with 29 and 30 all the time sounded so mature, even previous. On the finish of your twenties (higher earlier than) it is best to begin build up a correct life with good jobs and a few cash in your checking account in your future home and youngsters. And the way loopy wouldn’t it be to go on an extended journey with an individual you hardly hung out with besides on weekends? The longest time Lars and I had ever spent collectively was solely 11 days in a row! Oh my!
And it was certainly the time when buddies round us set their relationship standing on fb to “engaged”, despatched off their completely designed wedding ceremony invites or shared footage of their new child infants with the world.

I assume everyone has these doubts when making huge selections. Everyone worries concerning the future; and I’ve the sensation the older you get, the extra you’re involved concerning the issues you’ll do. As a result of no one needs to make errors and remorse a choice at some point. Not Lars, not me, no one.

Right now, virtually three years after making the choice to give up our jobs and to discover the world, I do know that it was the fitting determination to take that path. It was the suitable selection for my life to understand and expertise some essential issues:

Being with the one I really like

Liane and Lars in BangkokLars and I nonetheless take pleasure in each second we spend collectively

Once I hear different couples speaking about their lengthy distance relationships I mechanically consider the time when Lars and I had 200 km between us and we might solely see one another on the weekend. I nonetheless see myself operating out of the workplace on Friday evenings to catch the ferry (I wanted to take a ferry to get to my earlier working place) hoping the barrier gained’t be quicker than me, as quickly because it reached the opposite aspect of the river I stood there, ready for the subsequent barrier to be opened in order that I might begin operating to my first practice. Carrying, pulling, carrying have been the just about automated actions of my arms to get my baggage as quick as attainable down the steps and up once more. I nonetheless keep in mind how a lot I all the time hated the ticket kiosk when the method of printing the ticket felt like ages. Sitting within the first practice I knew that it have to be on time to catch my subsequent practice on the central station. Getting nearer to the central station I took my baggage once more and knew that one other dash can be essential to catch the practice to Hamburg. Once more, it felt like someone had pressed the “fast-forward” button and I ran like loopy via the central station to catch my practice on platform 7. Being out of breath I loved the sensation when the door of the practice closed BEHIND me and I knew that three hours later a stunning individual referred to as Lars would watch for me on the last vacation spot.

However I hated it. And I hated it much more once I considered Monday mornings and knew that I must do that bloody journey once more.

And weekends are far too brief for a pair that hasn’t seen one another for days. So, we by no means actually knew what to do. On the one hand you need to exit, do one thing in nature and being lively however one the opposite one hand, you simply need to be as shut as potential to your associate, be lazy and do nothing. After greater than three years Lars and I received to some extent the place we knew we have now to vary one thing, both we break up or we do one thing collectively. This was the purpose when each of us realized that we might like to go overseas; on an enormous journey. Collectively.  Lastly.
Again then we didn’t anticipate to share virtually each minute of the subsequent 2+ years with the opposite one; and that it might become that tremendous. Sure, even after greater than two very intense years we’re very joyful collectively, we all know it was the suitable choice for our relationship, and recognize each single morning once we get up subsequent to one another; figuring out there isn’t any practice ready for one among us.

I used to be not prepared to remain

Playa Punta Uva, Costa RicaResidence felt like a stopover and the world felt like house

Touring has been my ardour since my first journey overseas in 2005. I spent 6 months in Wellington, New Zealand to do an internship and had a incredible time there. It was the primary time in my life that I travelled someplace on my own and it was in all probability the time once I learnt probably the most about myself. Being on the opposite aspect of the world with an age of 22 was an unimaginable expertise. Abruptly individuals round me spoke some unusual type of English (sorry Kiwis!) and the one connection I had with my household at residence was a weekly telephone name. Unbelievable, again then my greatest good friend and I wrote letters to maintain us up to date; there was no fb or skype (Do you keep in mind these letters, Susi? 🙂 ).

It was in all probability the perfect lesson I had as a result of I learnt that there’s a lot extra to discover in our world. It was the time once I realized that additionally on the opposite aspect of the planet – the exact opposite and the farthest place from house – there are pretty individuals dwelling who’ve a reasonably comparable way of life and similar values in life and who I can speak to in the identical language.
Once I got here again to Germany I knew I couldn’t sit nonetheless at house, having a life at a everlasting spot. So, I made a decision to spend one other 6 months overseas, on the gorgeous island of Tenerife, Spain earlier than I completed my research.

Afterwards the “mature phase” began and a beautiful job alternative made me keep. However there was nonetheless this indescribable feeling in my veins; the starvation for journey and new adventures. I used to be so fortunate when an excellent good friend of mine and I might take a break from work and journey to Australia; the continent of our goals. Making our approach via this countless nation we spent an unforgettable time there. However even these 6 months weren’t sufficient. And I couldn’t belief my ears when Lars, solely half a yr after I got here again from Australia, advised to go overseas and to discover the world. You recognize what has occurred since then…

And now we’re sitting right here in Bangkok, wanting again on greater than 2 years on the street and I lastly know that I’m actually wanting ahead to return residence. This indescribable feeling in my veins has modified. It isn’t the starvation to discover new locations that’s now in me; it’s a feeling of wanting to remain at one place the place I might be with my family members.

Perhaps it’s too late at some point

Liane hiking the Andes Mountains in PeruWill I be match sufficient to hike by way of the Andes Mountains once I’m older?

Is it the suitable time to go overseas? Or are we too previous already and will make investments our time into our careers, in incomes cash and gaining monetary safety? I assume there isn’t a proper solution to reside a life however the longer we’ve got been touring the extra we now have realized it was absolutely the proper determination to do all this stuff now and to not postpone them. Let me inform you why.

Often 99% (it’s only a guess, I didn’t rely the individuals) of the vacationers we have now met on our journey have been between 20 and 30. However we additionally met a couple of within the age of our mother and father. Each time it was a pleasure speaking to them as a result of they made very totally different experiences whereas travelling than youthful individuals; they take a look at issues from one other perspective. Fairly often they deeply impressed us by their bodily health. On our Santa Cruz Trek by means of the Cordillera Blanca within the Peruvian Andes Mountains, we met a stunning couple at first of their sixties they usually have been tremendous match. With their strolling sticks that they had no issues to comply with the group they usually all the time had a smile of their faces. The trek was typically actually difficult and onerous however they mastered each problem. Eager about this superb couple, Lars and I began once more to ask ourselves if we should always have waited till we now have our circle of relatives and are older. However then questions like “Who can tell us if we will be still that fit when we are 60+?”, “Do we really want to do those exhausting trips when we are older?”, “Would we do things that are dangerous like riding down the world’s most dangerous road in Bolivia or climbing through dark caves in Guatemala only equipped with a candle in our hands when we knew that children and grand children were waiting for us at home?” And we each realized that we in all probability wouldn’t do all this stuff and that it was good to do them so long as we’re capable of do them.

Spending our cash on lifetime experiences

Liane with a sloth in the Amazon rainforest PeruAn unforgettable expertise: Holding an excellent cute sloth in my arms within the Amazon rainforest

Lars and I, even earlier than we obtained to know one another in 2009, didn’t care concerning the newest trend or digital units. Lars has all the time been a saver who was glad together with his quaint tube TV and who was very happy to spend his earnings on his beloved interest; golf. As for me, touring has all the time been my favourite I spent most of my cash on. When different women purchased themselves new purses or spoilt themselves with French Manicure I dreamed of my subsequent journey to some superb locations the place I might stroll barefoot alongside white sandy seashores or hike by way of barren landscapes.

And I assume the truth that each of us have all the time most popular investing our financial savings in actions and experiences made this journey rather a lot simpler. We each know that neither the most important automotive nor the prettiest footwear might give us as a lot happiness as standing in a hut within the Amazon rainforest holding an excellent cute sloth in our arms. And the longer we journey, the extra typically we understand that we don’t want costly gadgets that bore us after some time; it’s extra necessary to fill our reminiscences with particular moments that may take our breaths away; again and again.

Realizing how fantastic house is

Krabi, ThailandThe colours of Thailand are unimaginable however it’s time to return residence

It had all the time been nice to return residence after a very long time overseas however to be trustworthy, I had by no means appeared ahead to going again residence like this time. Fairly often it felt like leaving residence once I left a overseas vacation spot and my actual residence felt extra like a stopover the place I didn’t need to keep for too lengthy. However this time it’s totally different; figuring out that we’ll board our aircraft again to Germany on October 21st is a very good feeling.

The extra time we spend distant from house, the extra we understand how lovely our personal nation is. It’s so embarrassing once I take into consideration the locations I traveled to inside Germany; I hardly know my very own nation. I’ve by no means been to the spectacular Alps in Bavaria, the gorgeous Erzgebirge in Saxony or the idyllic Spreewald near Berlin.

And what about Europe? Did you understand how unbelievable it’s to reside in Europe? Dwelling in Germany we name seven totally different nations our neighbors and virtually all of them converse totally different languages and have their very own cultures; scrumptious meals and really fascinating traditions, and naturally, superb landscapes. Why have I by no means visited Norway’s fjords, Portugal’s coasts, France’s Bretagne or Greece’s Aegean See? As a result of I used to be not serious about it; all these locations bored me as a result of they have been too shut, consequently not unique sufficient. That’s no less than what I assumed. I’m joyful that, after seeing many nations and locations distant from Europe, my goals have modified and I’m now wanting ahead to discover the yard of my lovely residence nation and its fantastic neighbors.

I’m unsure how lengthy this sense of wanting to return residence and wanting to remain there’ll final for as a result of it’s a completely new feeling to me. I’m excited and nervous; I don’t know what to anticipate from the longer term. We didn’t know what would await us once we boarded the aircraft to Mexico in 2013 and we don’t know what is going to occur once we’ll board the aircraft again to Berlin in October 2015. However Lars and I do know no one can ever take our reminiscences away that we have now collected on the trail we took two years in the past.

Thanks for studying!

As all the time, protected travels!
Yours,
Liane

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